
On the Evolution of Pornography so Real You Can Fondle It
Pornographic virtual reality is continuing to change the way we view entertainment
I am in a room I do not recognize, sitting on a bed that isn't mine. I glance quickly down at my torso, but unless I’ve just suddenly sprouted a penis, this isn't my torso. In front of me is a beautiful woman, looking into my eyes as she leans close into me and kisses me, whispering seductively into my ear as two hands grab her breasts. Again, these aren’t my hands. In real life I’m sitting in a room of three other people, all giggling as my mouth drops open with awe, unbeknownst to what is going on in my current reality—my virtual reality. This is my blushing introduction to the PVR Iris; the first Virtual Reality headset made specifically for experiencing pornography.
The PVR K1 Pro looks like a tiny, robot’s head; it even has two lenses for eyes and detachable ears to record sound. But the contraption looks the least suspicious in the room, set up at the end of an opulent bed made from stacked mattresses and an ornate golden headboard (braced by apple boxes to avoid squeaking). Among plush velvet couches, an endless supply of whips, chains, gold-plated dildos sits ready and waiting to be picked up under the studio lights.

Darling remembers a time when many experts predicted that virtual reality would push porn into extreme corners: “Initially people thought it would be a way to have Caligulan hedonistic orgies in 360 and everywhere you look there can be people doing sex stuff.” Little did skeptics know that rather than becoming a way to make sex more extreme, VR has slowly become focused on authenticity. “People realize now it’s not about having genitals flapping in every direction around you. It’s about guiding focus, about creating a sense of presence and a transportive experience where you’re in this really beautiful sexual experience,” Darling says.

This new generation of adult filmmaking has also altered the demands of the adult industry's stars. “You have to really tap into the most authentic version of yourself, because inauthenticity is fucking tangible,” Darling elaborates. In other words, a thrashing, screeching orgasm might look great in 2D, but it’s unlikely to get the same reaction in VR. “If you’re the kind of cam girl who is just stuffing your holes for money, you’re going to do great in 2D. In VR, it’s not about sexual olympics, it’s about establishing an authentic sense of reciprocal affection.” And now, given the rising accessibility of VR headsets, more customers can submerge themselves in the experience.
When Lee writes and directs VR, it becomes almost like a play: “You have three walls and the fourth wall is broken." That fourth wall becomes the viewer, they become an active participant in the room; a new puzzle to solve for Lee or any similar director to constantly include the viewer. For example, when I see Lee brief Mack on what they’re about to shoot, she gives a character to the camera—or, as they like to call it, the “empathy machine”.
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Still, given that the level of intimacy is unlike anything that conventional porn can provide, does participating in VR porn constitute as cheating? I touched breasts when I put on a headset. Would your significant other be okay with that? “The best thing that can come from this is that it makes people have those conversations with their partners that they really should be having anyway,” Darling suggests. It’s a subject that should garner an honest talk sooner rather than later because VR porn is only going to get more high tech—which we now know means it’s only going to get more immersive. Companies are now manufacturing masturbation sleeves, for example, that can be synced to mimic the movements you’re watching, or even ones that can respond to a live sensor—meaning that people could hypothetically receive a blow job from a cam girl on the other side of the world.
Sure, technology is boundless and even if there are seemingly endless positive side effects, the future ofthis technological landscape has the potential to negate the need for real experiences with real humans. Use with caution.